The Code of Living is a unique idea at Cheley Colorado Camps, the camp that I have been attending for the past six summers. I find it fascinating. Fifty to sixty teenagers, some who have never met, and as a group write the rules and standards that we, as campers, want to hold our self and others to; the belief being that a person is more likely to follow the rules if they are a part of the process of creating them and they can see their influence. All the campers sign it, like a contract, and receive a blue kerchief that symbolizes the code that they are striving to live up to. And I find, that I become a different person for that one month. Let me share with you this summer's Code of Living.
Initiative
Have the courage to be the one to take the first step.
Communication
Communicate honestly so we may trust each other. Communicate thoroughly so we do not misunderstand each other. Communicate respectfully so we may strengthen the bonds of our community.
Individuality
Have the courage to be yourself. Put your own spin on everything you do. "Dance like no one is watching." Do this keeping in mind that your actions as an individual affect the community as a whole. A complete puzzle is made of unique pieces.
Passion
Do everything with heart and purpose. Make each step your strongest. Push yourself.
Appreciation
Be thankful for what you have. Be proud of what you accomplish. Be glad for the help you receive along the way.
What is so special and unique about the Code of Living is that each year, it changes. Returning and new campers arrive at camp the next summer and different traits are selected with the input of all. No Code of Living has or will be the same.
What I attempt to do is carry that code of living with me throughout the rest of the school year and try and force myself to be who I am at camp. It is a tough challenge and there have been times when I have realized that I have not been living up to the code. I have let myself down. And maybe, my actions will rub off on someone else. All the North students will roll their eyes when I say this, but it is similar to paying it forward. Held together by a fragile strand of trust that each individual is responsible for keeping in tact.
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I agree that those involved in creating their own laws have a much bigger chance to actually follow them. This relates somewhat to The Blue Sweater, where Jacqueline involved the people in creating their own lives.
ReplyDeleteAs far as the actual law code goes, it's pretty interesting how the "laws" are more about taking initiative and being happy than just following rules. Maybe if everybody is passionate and appreciative of the things around them, they wouldn't need regular rules. In other words, if everybody is following these five simple laws, why do we need any others?